Success!
Well, I finished my steam box last night and bent my first stem today.
Following the advice above, it worked like a charm.
The only advice above that I didn't followed was the bending a double wide blank. I already had the form built when I received that tip. Oh well, I'll let this one "cure" for a week or so and then try the other one. I used kiln dried ash soaked for a week, my box got well above 200 deg and I let it "cook" for about 1 hr 20 min.
I'm especially thankful for the tip - Go Fast, then slow. The wood seem to need to "rest" some in the middle of the bend.
The only issue was my steam box. I nailed it together and the stem bowed the wood and pulled it apart at the seams. I had duct taped the seams, but the duct tape didn't hold up to the heat. For safety, I drilled a hole and had a cone shaped bottle stopper loosely in the hole to act as a stem release value -- I didn't need it as steam was releasing from the seams. At the end of the time, the temperature was actually falling in the box.
No big deal, I'll just get some caulking to replace the duct tape and screw the seams back together.
All in all, I'd call it a tremendous success.
Thanks again for all the tips! What a great site!