"not even in the same room where you would apply resin"
Well, that presents a bit of a problem. I don't have a separate finishing room, let alone a separate 'glassing room. Everything, including rough milling, assembly, sanding, 'glassing, and final topcoat finishing gets done in the same garage. No way the rest of the family is going to put up with sanding dust or fumes in the rest of the house. Tried the basement once, but the whole house reeked of varnish.
Typically, when I'm done sanding, the garage gets vacuumed out reasonably well, allowed to settle a couple days, vacuum & settle again, before I start resin or finish work. This seems to reduce the dust specks in the coats; might this also reduce the ill effects of oil vs resin? What else can/should I do?
Good thing I'm just a hobbyist, and only do this between the day job & running the kids around! That'd be a lot of downtime for a real shop...
The other thing I'll note is that I just finished doing annual maintenance on my local forest preserve district's Voyageur paddles. These have had oil finishes on them since they were new (at least 7 years ago, no telling how many more). They get used several times a week during the spring-summer-fall programs season, so it's not like they're collecting dust. Three of the five paddles developed cracks in the shafts, and I've epoxied them back together (made a whole new top end for one), put fiberglass casts around the breaks, and I've been sanding & oiling the eposed wood annually. The 'glass is holding up well, and it's been 4-5 years since it was put on. Perhaps fully cured oil has lost whatever solvents impact the epoxy, and fully cured epoxy resists the oil solvents? Any thoughts?